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Tuesday, March 4, 2008

Word of the Week: Erotic Lactation

Got milk? Well, if you're into erotic lactation the answer is probably yes.

Erotic lactation is when an adult partner is breastfed for erotic reasons. This is also referred to as adult nursing, adult breastfeeding, and adult suckling, and if an exclusive couple takes part in this, they're referred to as a nursing couple. Those involved in this sort of activity may have a milk fetish or lactophilia.

This may be more common than you think. In a 2005 study, the London newspaper, The Times, reported that between 25% to 33% of men had suckled from their lactating wives. Most people who do this, though, don't talk about it and keep their actions a secret. Public opinion on the matter is vague. How often have you discussed erotic lactation in polite company? Probably never!

According to Wikipedia, there are several variations of erotic lactation. Here are a few for your consideration:

  • Lactation games: This refers to any sexual activity including a woman's milk. Such activity is widespread, and often unintentional in the time after a woman gives birth since many women experience a let-down reflex (releasing milk) when sexually aroused.
  • Lactation pornography: This is mostly a niche genre, and is considered a taboo by many because of its proximity to incest and children. Not surprising, Japan produces the most lactation-related pornography, both in live action and hentai. Side note: one of the very first porn movies I ever saw included a scene with lactation. It was weird. All I remember about it was that there was lactation and incest involved. Interesting stuff for your first porn viewing, eh?
  • Adult Nursing Relationship (ANR): This is the suckling of milk from a female's breast on a regular basis from one or more partners. According to Wiki, "successful ANRs depend on a stable and long-term relationship, as, otherwise it is very difficult to maintain a steady milk flow. Couples may began an ANR by transferring regular suckling from a child to a sexual partner (eg. husband). Such a relationship may form as an expression of close intimacy and mutual tenderness and may even exist without sex. The breastfeeding woman may experience orgasms or a pleasurable let-down reflex." The couple that sucks together stays together?
  • Pumping: Not surprising, some women experience pleasure and orgasms from having their breast milk pumped, either manually or with a machine. A few women enjoy the physical and emotional feelings from pumping so much that they continue to pump even after they have weaned their children.
What do you think? I, Miss Kitty, have never had children and never plan to, but I don't think having my husband suckle from me would be entirely weird. Now, if he were to use my breast milk in his cereal or to dunk his Oreos in, that might be another story. In my sometimes wacky mind, erotic lactation doesn't seem like that big of a deal. What are your thoughts?

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Jezebel VonTizzle said...

I think its a bit weird. having had a child, i remember my ex wanting to "sample". it takes a long time for your breasts to go from being sexual and getting used to your child sucking on them. it never sat right in my head. but then to have my then partner want to take part in an activity that is supposed to just be for my child?

Oi! Jezzy all confused and not in the least bit turned on.

A Corrupt Mind said...

I get ageplay and things like that. But this is a meh to me. It doesn't repulse me but it definitely does nothing for me that is for sure.

Justin said...

I (a male) don't know about actual breast milk, but both my partner (a female) and I have apparently given off some form of fluid during orgasm. I was biting on her left breast while she was astride me and when she came her breast released a fluid. After I told her (previous to that) that I sometimes liked my nipples being played with during sex, she was biting on one when I came once, and said that I also gave off some fluid. It may be just us, but I wonder if anyone else has experienced something similar while biting a breast/nipple during orgasm? *now has a nice hard-on remembering it* I'm a Huge fan of my lover's breasts btw :)

flossbitch said...

One thing that wasn't mentioned but can also go along with the ANR is the idea of "induced lactation" which is often utilized by adoptive mothers who wish to nurse their adopted children. Lactation can be induced without a pregnancy it requires a considerable amount of regular suckling along with the consumption of certain meds and/or herbal supplements. This kinda eliminates the "stealing milk from the baby" issue that tends to bother some folks about erotic lactation.

Anonymous said...

Apparently its quite the popular thing. There are dating sites based on erotic laction and people looking for adult breast feeding

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