TMI Tuesday #177

1. Are you pro-marriage? Why or why not?
Yes, but I haven't always been. I used to be bitter :)
Being a girl wildly in love and more so everyday, I can say that the biggest thing that pushes me to re-believe in marriage is the fact that I want to share everything with this man. There are moments when it is positively overwhelming. And for proper balance there are times when I need my space as well. But overall he compliments me in every way a person can.

2. Have you ever invented or thought you invented a sexual position?
Yes..well maybe not "invented" but certainly came across a position I had never experienced before. It goes a little like this.....I'm bent over the edge of the bed, or on my knees and he is behind me in almost classic doggystyle position. Except that instead of holding my hips he is holding my wrists for leverage. It's really quite amazing!

3. Do you like to be tied up? Always or sometimes?
I would like to be tied up. I have once or twice before but have been asking my boyfriend to do it for years and he has yet to do so. I also have an interest in playing with hot wax.......

4. Do you consider online cybering adultery?
I hate this question because I don't have an answer. The truth is, cyber sex is not sex. I don't care what you want to say about it, it's not sex. Therefore a physically trust bond has not been broken. However, I do think that there is something very wrong, maybe emotionally disruptive, about sharing something that is supposed to be intimate and only shared with your partner when it's shared with someone else.

5. Do you prefer masturbation over real sex?
Sometimes yes. But only because I enjoy the pleasure of my own company and I discovered it late in life (I was 24). That said, there are times when I just want the quick orgasm and know that I can crash within 10 minutes of being done. Being the "pleaser" that I am, I am not one to take the O's without giving them if my boyfriend is here. So, on the nights he's at home, it's not uncommon for me to take care of myself.

6. Do you want sex more times a day than your partner?
No, he wants it more then I do. I am happy with sex 2-3 times a week, he's happy 2-3 times a day, but happily takes the 2-3 times a week. We do alright ;)

7. Do you get offended when you partner openly flirts with others or are you okay with it?
I am okay with it. I am very confident in my relationship and am not the least bit worried about it.

8. Do you think you're flirty by nature?

hahahahahahhahahahahahhahahaha, what? really?? hahahahahahhahahahahahahahhahhahahaha I am what you may call a "natural". And yes it has gotten me in loads and loads of trouble. I figured out from a very young age how to get what I want and using my sexuality and "charm" is just one way to make that happen. I am the girl that despite the fact that I don't have an amazing body, have never had a hard time getting laid. As I have been told "there's always someone I can call".